Hola, people! Love can be complicated. Happiness ever after happens only in fairy tales and movies, while real life is completely different. It takes a lot of effort for two people to stay in love and be together. Fights, misunderstandings, and drama come with the package. Some couples survive and shine together, while others find it really hard to cope and end up giving up.
Now, we know a breakup stings, but what’s worse than that? Not letting go and trying to patch things up after a bad breakup. I’m not saying that it won’t work out, but the probability is quite low.
But our foolish hearts always make us weak, leading us to give a second chance to someone who has already broken them. Are we doing the right thing? Patching up with an ex can be really tricky; if it’s wrong for you, it could leave you devastated. Before you surrender in the name of love, talk some sense to your brain and think practically. Ask yourself these five questions before you say, ‘Let’s patch up!
1. What Caused The Break Up In The First Place?
You need to know what blocked your relationship from moving forward. It’s not about whose fault was it, it is the core problem you need to identify. You need to think over if you both can fix it or not.
2. Will You Be Able To Survive The Past?
Let bygones be bygones – It is easier said than done, we may fool ourselves but we know that an incident like this could only fade away with time. So ask yourself if you can live with it.
3. Will Your Ex Make The Same Efforts As You?
You are going out of your way to make this relationship work but for that, you don’t have to give up your respect, are you sure that he will make the same efforts or he will realize your value in his life?
4. Is It Just Because You Are Feeling Alone?
A patch up can be a rebound and that’s never good. Sometimes, you just become dependent on someone, just because that space is empty, it doesn’t mean that you need your ex to get back and fill it. Be Sure.
5. Does Your Ex Deserve It And Most Importantly Are You Still In Love With Your Ex?
The most important question of all is: is he really worth all these efforts? Are you truly in love with your ex? If he still makes your knees go weak and gives you collywobbles in your stomach, then he might be the one, and you should consider giving him a second chanc
All these questions will help clarify your decision on whether to move forward or decline the idea of getting back together. Make sure you are making a wise choice.
Stay Happy. Adios!
18 August 2017
Avni S. Singh
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