These Questions Will Clear The Cloud Of Doubts In Your Mind!

Hola People! Love can be complicated. The happily ever after happens only in fairy tales and movies, but real life is completely different from that. It takes a lot of efforts for two people to stay in love and be together. Fights, misunderstandings and drama, it all comes with the package and where some survive and shine together, some find it really hard to cope up with and give up. Now, we know a break-up stings but what’s worse than that? Not letting it go and patch up after a bad break up. I am not saying that it won’t work out but the probability is quite less.

But our stupid heart, it always makes us weak and we decide to give a second chance to the person who, once, already have broken it. Are we doing the right thing? Patch up with an ex can be really tricky, If it’s wrong for you, it could leave you devastated. Before you go ahead and surrender in the name of love, talk some sense to your brain and think practically. Ask these 5 questions before you say – Let’s Patch Up!

1. What Caused The Break Up In The First Place?

You need to know what blocked your relationship from moving forward. It’s not about whose fault was it, it is the core problem you need to identify. You need to think over if you both can fix it or not.

2. Will You Be Able To Survive The Past?

Let bygones be bygones – It is easier said than done, we may fool ourselves but we know that an incident like this could only fade away with time. So ask yourself if you can live with it.

3. Will Your Ex Make The Same Efforts As You?

You are going out of your way to make this relationship work but for that, you don’t have to give up your respect, are you sure that he will make the same efforts or he will realize your value in his life?

4. Is It Just Because You Are Feeling Alone?

A patch up can be a rebound and that’s never good. Sometimes, you just become dependent on someone, just because that space is empty, it doesn’t mean that you need your ex to get back and fill it. Be Sure.

5. Does Your Ex Deserve It And Most Importantly Are You Still In Love With Your Ex?

The most important question of all is, is he really worth all these efforts? Are you really in love with your ex? If your ex still makes your knees go weak and you feel collywobbles in your stomach then he might be the one, and you should give him a second chance.

All these questions will make it clear for you to decide whether to move forward or decline the thought of getting back together. Make sure you are making a wise choice.

Stay Happy. Adios!

18 August 2017
Avni S. Singh