These 8 reasons will explain to you how this is the best time to ditch Toxic People and the drama that they bring, out from your life.
We all have seen, known, or are together with some Toxic People, who basically just suck the life out of you. At times it seems that the sole purpose of these people in your life is to pull you down and stop you from going after what you want. All in all, these are the people who are just simply opposite of a really good friend. They don’t like you, they don’t respect you and they definitely don’t want you to succeed, and if you know someone exactly like this in your life, then my friend please kick them out, right now.
One simply doesn’t deserve to be around people who want nothing but bad for you or are pretending to be your friend, just to be close to you. There is already a lot of stuff that one has to deal with in their lives, which is why everyone needs a good group of people who are there for you.
And, if you still don’t feel convinced to do so, then we have these 8 reasons that basically count downs how badly these toxic people are affecting your life. Who knows? Maybe after reading these 8 reasons, you might take the much-needed step.
1. They think they’re better than you.
Thinking that someone is better than the other person is alright, after all, we are all human beings, however, if they constantly make you feel that no matter what happens, they’ll always be better than you, then please do yourself a favour and send a goodbye text.
2. They don’t respect you.
Everyone deserves to be respected and if you’re surrounded by people who don’t respect you then shoo them away. Toxic people often consider themselves to always be above you and feel some sort of entitlement and trust me, no one wants to be around someone like that.
3. They don’t listen to you.
No matter how much of a good listener you’re, sometimes even you want to talk to someone where the other person hears to you, however, these toxic people just can’t digest this fact and always try to cut you mid way.
4. They’re manipulative AF!
Manipulating you into doing something good is one thing, however, being manipulative in order to put you down and feel guilty is a sign of a toxic person. And, you know what should be done to toxic people, right?
5. They are selfish.
These toxic people are the most selfish creature on the face of this earth who can do anything for getting their share of affection and attention. Basically, they can’t digest the fact that someone else could also be important, they need their own limelight, at all times.
6. They don’t celebrate for you.
These Toxic people live for seeing you fail and celebrate every inch of your failure, however, once you succeed and they are nowhere to be found. They can’t digest your success which is why they keep on reminding you about your failures.
7. They don’t bring the best in you.
One of the most important traits of a good friend is that they bring the best in you, but toxic people will always do the opposite of this. You just can’t seem to be like the real and happy self around them.
8. You and your life are certainly more happy and easy without them.
They suck the energy right out of you which is why you’re always sad and down in their presence. A sudden shift of change can immediately be noticed in you and your mood whenever this person is around you and for this reason alone you should be saying a goodbye to them, right now. Because no one deserves to be sad at all times.
These were the 8 straightforward and solid reasons for why you should be saying the final goodbye to all the toxic people in your life who have nothing good to do than completely destroying you and your confidence. They don’t have a positive influence on you in any way, so why do you even have them in your life? Basically, someone who doesn’t add anything good in your life should immediately be subtracted from it.
14th July 2017
Jyotsna Amla