You don’t need these 6 types of people in your life anymore.
When we make friends, we don’t do friendship with them for a limited period of time. We expect every one of our friends to be by our side for the rest of our lives, but some leave behind because of various circumstances.
However, there is some special kind of people who should be left behind because let’s face the reality, they are not the best of people to be around. Everyone has certain people around them who never support them, don’t respect them and do another such thing for all the negativity in the other person’s life.
And, you need to let go of these people. You need to end these friendships.
The 20s is the time when you make a ton of friends and every one of these friends seems to be one of the best people in your life. However, one needs to understand that 20s are also the time when you’re the most adventurous self. It is the 30s when the practicality enters your life and you get to know who are your true and real friends. And, in order to get this in the most subtle way possible way is by leaving behind toxic people.
Here are 6 types of people that you should let go of before you turn 30.
1. The ‘I’m Too Busy For You’ Friend
We all have been around these people who have all the time in this world, however, whenever you need them, they’re just too busy. Don’t we? These people deserve a special place in hell, for not considering their friends important enough for their time, and definitely not in your 30s.
2. The Wanderer
These might be one of the most amazing people that you’ve ever come across but these are just not the best friends that you always want to be around. They can’t commit of being in one place, which makes the entire equation of being best friends with them, a bit difficult.
3. The Ditcher
These kind of people are the one who mastered the art of ditching their friends. You can’t make a plan with them because deep down you know that they’ll be ditching you at the most crucial point of time. Ask them to be loyal to you, and they’ll vanish from your life.
4. The Melodramatic
Everything is drama for them. They are the people that want you to be around them all the time because they’ve extreme reactions to, almost everything. However, you need to understand that being friends with someone does means that you’re there for them, but it doesn’t mean losing yourself in the way.
5. The Bully
Every group has a bully who just loves to pick on their friends all the time, and at times it’s funny. However, the fun ends when these people go out of their line and do the same in front of strangers. Friends don’t bully their friends in front of others.
6. The Complainer
These people love to complain about anything and everything. They just need you to be there when they’re complaining and gossiping the shit about everyone that they know. You don’t need such a negative person around you because remember, the person who talks behind their friends to you would also be doing the same for you.
So, what do you think? Do you have any one of these friends around you? If yes, then please let them go, for your own benefit.
20th July 2017
Jyotsna Amla