You were indulged till the oceanic depths of love, however, cupid went against your luck and your relation ended on a bad note. So, what’s Next, you begged in front of your love & cried (to bring her/him back, and failed), endless tears which sometimes force few lovers to take extreme step. However, Why we forget that one should remember that the utmost prominence should be of our own life, not anyone else. If you had a bad break-up take it as an attempt (which may have failed) to the most important aspect of life, still it is not the end of life.
You gotta Move On!
Remember you may have failed previously in AIEEE OR AIPMT OR CAT OR GRE OR GMAT and even after failing you are doing fine now. So break-up may turn into a sour lemon but you have to make lemonade and enjoy.
We will seek the solutions to make sure your breakup should no longer haunt you & let’s began our helping module:
Delete, Delete, Delete, Permanently delete– the old stuff even from recycle bin. Messages, emails, call logs, photographs etc., eradicate it and live happily.
Please DO NOT do this. You may end up in Jail or You will feel bad later on.
Stay AWAY from SOCIAL MEDIA: No Facebook, No twitter, No Instagram. (Yes! Get allergic to these).Take a diary and pen down your thoughts. (As you may become vulnerable and will display or write something on social media which may jeopardize your situation and will crumble down your image)
Donate the gifts or throw them, end the story, keep your eyes away from the lovey-dovey stuff.
Go for a makeover, a new hairstyle or take a spa treatment. (This step will generate a feel-good factor)
If you are a party person, go to a club, drink a beer and take your dancing-foot forward. If you don’t party, watch your favorite movies on your laptop (remember you compromised few of your favorite movies when you were in a relationship).
Go for Solo or group trip. (Addiction of traveling will transform you; you will meet a new person who was hiding in your inner self).
Do Yoga if you find it interesting or simply go for morning jogs or if you are a gym person and were not able to concentrate on it due to your “relationship”, take out your frustration there.
Read books-books of your interest and disinterest. No mills and boons, please! Reading broadens the horizons of thoughts.
Spend time with your family, go for shopping, movies, lunch or sit with them for evening tea and chit chat sessions. You will realize nothing can be more beautiful than this.
Don’t lose heart, everything happens for a reason, REMEMBER, everything happens for good. So Live Life and Have Fun.
As Leo Buscaglia said “Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.” So love your life and don’t miss the fun moments of your life.
5 October 2015