Introverts are said to be one of the best bestfriends that one can have and here are all the reasons why.
We all have come across introverts who don’t talk much and have their own set of specific friends to be chill and cool with. They basically prefer to spend their weekends with a good book, coffee, while constantly petting their cats (or at least they wish to).
At this moment, I would like to announce that even I’m one of these Introvert kind who can never, even for their life, mix up with a group of people easily. We take our time to make ourselves belong to the place, time and people. However, there’s one amazing quality about Introverts and that is their ability to be the best bestfriends one can ever have. Yes, introverts have certain traits that help them in having long and lasting friendships. They don’t ditch people or crib about them, along with these there are many other qualities that set them apart from the pool of personalities. So, I decided to disclose these utterly delightful qualities of Introverts that make them the best bestfriends.
1. They are best at keeping secrets.
What do you want from your best friend? To basically listen to all your secrets and guard them for their entire lives because why not? They respect other’s personal boundaries and never try to intentionally cross them.
2. They know how to respect other’s opinions.
One of the best thing about Introverts is that they know how to respect other’s opinions, even when they disagree with it. They love to know about other’s unique perspective on things and enjoy it a lot.
3. They listen to you.
Whenever you feel like you need to vent out to someone, look no further than your Introvert friend. They are one of the most amazing listeners who would listen to every word you say with all the attentiveness, plus, remember it for the longest time.
4. They give the golden advice.
Introverts have a filter in their mouth and mind which is why they think before speaking (something that lacks in extroverts), and give some of the best and most thought out advice. Their advice has depth and is often the most helpful.
5. They’re incredibly loyal.
There’s no one more loyal than an introvert because you see they take their own time in gelling up with people and over the course of this, they know a lot about you and then they’re just there with you for almost an entire lifetime. They do have the tendency to do that.
6. They’re not needy.
Introverts know how to be with themselves which means that they’ll never be begging you to be with them. They enjoy their alone time and are content with whatever they had.
7. They know how to spend a good night in.
If you’re looking for a friend to have your slumber party with, then introverts are the best one for it. They know how to have cozy and comfortable night in, they basically live for this. They know good music, movies and TV series that both of you can binge on without any judgements.
8. They also know how to have fun on a night out.
Trust me when I say that introverts know how to party and have fun. They won’t be going crazy all over the dance floor, but do enjoy their own time on the floor. Plus, they’ll always be ready to ditch the party, early.
9. They will always have time for you.
Introverts don’t have a large group of meaningless friends, they prefer to be in a close knitted small group, which is why they’ll always be there for who needs them. They will always be ready to hang out with you and enjoy a quiet and meaningful time.
10. They teach you the true meaning of being independent.
Introverts have mastered the art of being independent and enjoying the time by themselves, which is still missing from a lot of people. Therefore, being with them will make you realise the importance of yourself. Basically, they’ll show you how amazing you truly are.
14th July 2017