Terrified of falling in Love? These might be the reason behind it, as per your zodiac sign.
Let’s just clear one thing, not everyone is open to the calculation of relationships and love. There are some who just can’t seem to be in that phase of love and constantly feel terrified of being in love with someone. There are various reasons for this, while some feel threatened some feel that they would have to face some sort of disappointment and if you’re also someone like this, then this article might solve the initial stages of your problem.
We decided to dig deep and find out the reasons as to why some people are terrified of love and got the answers that we’re looking for, as per their zodiac signs. Now, not everything would be true for everyone, but for most of us, it is. So, enjoy knowing the reality behind your fear.
1. Aries
(March 21st – April 19th)
You love your adventurous nature and the reason behind you being terrified of love is because you’re scared that love might limit your spontaneous and energetic self. You don’t want to be controlled or be considered boring and for you, love and relationships just make one that which is why you try to be as far as possible from it. However, you need to understand that love and relationship are fun, as long as you’re working to make it one.
2. Taurus
(April 20th – May 21st)
You’re terrified of falling in love is because of your past. You have been hurt before, which is why you don’t want anyone else to come even remotely close to you. Your fear basically works as a protection for your heart which has been hurt before, but always remember that one heartbreak doesn’t mean that there’s no one for you. You need to get up again and start looking out for love that you want for a lifetime to last.
3. Gemini
(May 22nd – June 21st)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you don’t seem to yet figure out what is ‘right’ and what is wrong for you. Geminis have always adored change because of which they just can’t be at one place for far too long. You thrive change which is why one thing goes on for a long time, you don’t know how to handle it anymore and in a situation like these, you feel the need of running away. And, that’s what you do.
4. Cancer
(June 22nd – July 22nd)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you’re scared of disappointment. You care too much for people and you wonder if the other person would also do as much for you, as you expect. You already have a ton of expectations from people, and most of the time these expectations go in a negative direction. This is why you’re scared that the person you fell for will turn out to be just what you expect.
5. Leo
(July 23rd – August 22nd)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you love your independent self a lot, and you feel that love might hinder it in some way, or even completely. You love having control over things and being in love would mean giving up most of that control, which basically doesn’t work well with you.
6. Virgo
(August 23rd – September 22nd)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you don’t consider yourself to be good enough and you’re constantly scared of your partner finding that about you and leave you. Blame it on your not so smooth hand on you communicating with your partner about your feelings or something else, but this definitely is the reason behind your fear.
7. Libra
(September 23rd – October 22nd)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you don’t want to be the person who was left by their partner and this is also the reason why you’re usually the one to leave. It’s loneliness and the fear that comes with it that is keeping you away from falling in love. You’re constantly looking for a guarantee card that the person will be there with you for forever, and you’re scared of not getting it from the person you love.
8. Scorpio
(October 23rd – November 22nd)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you completely can’t stand dishonesty and you constantly feel that the person that you fell for will be dishonest to you. In short, you’re scared of trusting someone more than you trust yourself and then getting not getting what you expected.
9. Sagittarius
(November 23rd – December 21st)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you’re scared that your partner will push you into being in one constrained box of life. You’ve never been good in standing still in life, which is why you’re scared of it. You can to explore new things, places, people and want to have innumerable stories to tell, and being in one place will never get you that.
10. Capricorn
(December 22nd – January 20th)
You’re terrified of falling in love because you have a complete life plan laid in front of you and love can basically make you reckless and turn you into someone who doesn’t care anymore, and you don’t want that. You love an easy life and don’t want any kind of mess that love brings with it in one’s life.
11. Aquarius
(January 21st – February 18th)
You’re terrified of falling in love as you feel that it will completely change and transform you from your original self. You have an intellect and you’re scared that being in love might end up making you stupid. You don’t want to exchange your meaningful conversations with something that is short term and short lived.
12. Pisces
(February 19th – March 20th)
You’re terrified of falling in love because it didn’t work for you in the past. You often fell in love and consider it to be real every time, however, when it leaves you, you’re heartbroken. And, you just don’t want to down that lane again. You feel that you’ll never be able to find love again, but you’ve found it before and you’ll find it again.
So, what do you think? Do these reasons stand true to your fear of falling in love?
14th July 2017
Jyotsna Amla